When Ghosting Haunts You
It’s happened to most of us. Ghosting, it’s when someone seems interested in you and then suddenly goes as quiet as a corpse. Scenario 1. You meet a guy on an app or online, and he seems to be…
WHY GAY (GEIGH) TWITTER IS IMPORTANT FOR THE BLACK GAY CHILD?
It is not a secret that Black Twitter is basically South African Twitter and within Black Twitter you tend to find factions such as Gym Twitter, Promo Twitter and of course the influential gay twitter or as we call it…
TROLLS ON THE GRIND
Trolls on Dating Apps may have personality disorders – say, experts. If you’ve surfed the ‘interwebs’ for more than five minutes you've encountered the disturbing phenomenon that is the internet troll. Vindictive people that cannot resist posting things they know…
MAN BOOBS: NO JOKE
30% of all men will develop breast tissue at some point during their lives and this is no laughing matter because it can be linked to very serious illness. Developing glandular breast tissue among men is more common than you…
Let me let (myself) go
A few years ago, I was engaged to a perfect man. At least that is what I believed he was. Everything I had ever wanted was wrapped up in one parcel, looks, humour, intelligence, kindness and for once, I was…
Humping When A Hug Would Do
Are you having sex when all you need is to be touched? We all need to be touched. It’s well-documented that babies that were not touched and held after birth stopped developing and often died, even if they received all…
The Name of the Game is Non-Monogamy
I am of the opinion that in all modern long-term gay relationships there comes a time when the question will be asked: Should we consider playing around with other people together? I often find that there are usually two camps…
Gay Men and Substance Dependency
According to the National Centre on Addiction and Substance Abuse(CASA), more than half of individuals that have a substance problem also use or have problems with other substances. And more than one in six of those with a substance problem…
Porn may be screwing with you.
And not in a good way. I have to admit that porn has played a large supporting role in the backdrop of my life so far, and I have mixed feelings about this. Especially now that some researchers are suggesting…
Mirror, Mirror on the wall…you’re my biggest fear of all.
Have you ever stripped down and stood in front of a mirror and seen how long you can look at your reflection? I have. The challenge was short-lived, and it’s not about the rolls and excess body weight. It’s not…