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Hip: A Tight Ass – Not Hepatitis

Gay and bisexual men are at a higher risk of being infected with Viral Hepatitis.  Here are some quick and dirty details to help you steer clear of this virus: Hepatitis means "inflammation of the liver" and Hepatitis A, B,…

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When Ghosting Haunts You

It’s happened to most of us. Ghosting, it’s when someone seems interested in you and then suddenly goes as quiet as a corpse.   Scenario 1. You meet a guy on an app or online, and he seems to be…

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TROLLS ON THE GRIND

Trolls on Dating Apps may have personality disorders – say, experts. If you’ve surfed the ‘interwebs’ for more than five minutes you've encountered the disturbing phenomenon that is the internet troll.  Vindictive people that cannot resist posting things they know…

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MAN BOOBS: NO JOKE

30% of all men will develop breast tissue at some point during their lives and this is no laughing matter because it can be linked to very serious illness. Developing glandular breast tissue among men is more common than you…

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Let me let (myself) go

A few years ago, I was engaged to a perfect man. At least that is what I believed he was. Everything I had ever wanted was wrapped up in one parcel, looks, humour, intelligence, kindness and for once, I was…

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Humping When A Hug Would Do

Are you having sex when all you need is to be touched? We all need to be touched.  It’s well-documented that babies that were not touched and held after birth stopped developing and often died, even if they received all…

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The Name of the Game is Non-Monogamy

I am of the opinion that in all modern long-term gay relationships there comes a time when the question will be asked: Should we consider playing around with other people together? I often find that there are usually two camps…

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Gay Men and Substance Dependency

According to the National Centre on Addiction and Substance Abuse(CASA), more than half of individuals that have a substance problem also use or have problems with other substances. And more than one in six of those with a substance problem…

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Porn may be screwing with you.

And not in a good way. I have to admit that porn has played a large supporting role in the backdrop of my life so far, and I have mixed feelings about this. Especially now that some researchers are suggesting…

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