Celebrating Black Queer Love
Gay love stories highlighted by both straight and LGBTQ media people hardly ever show images of gay black couples. When one looks in the media, you never see any posts on Black Queer Love because the face of Queer we…
The Bear Necessities
If you go down to the woods today, you better know what it takes to charm the bears. Bears have become one of the fastest growing gay subcultures globally, and whether you are amused by parts of gay subculture being…
The Unapologetic Pansy
Man the fuck up! How many times have you heard those words said out loud to you? Grow a pair of balls! Be a man, for crying out loud! Must you be such a Pansy? I remember a video on…
Dealing With Prejudice
A recent study by OUT LGBTI Wellbeing together with the Love Not Hate Campaign found that 41% of gay men in South Africa know someone who has been discriminated against or murdered because of being homosexual. Our communities need to…
Dis_Moffie_Ja?
I look in the mirror and there’s a knot in my stomach because of the bit of padding that I see on my stomach. I am nowhere near obese and actually weigh less than the average person my height, but…
TAKE PRIDE
It’s Pride season guys, and if you’re anything like me, you’re ready to fluff out those tail feathers after a cold, dry winter. It’s summer’s eve and whether or not you built a ‘bikini-ready bodaysha” during the three nippy months,…
Popping your PrEP for One Night of Pleasure
It’s called Event-based PrEP or PrEP On-demand, and it’s when you take two PrEP pills on the day you plan to have sex and then one pill every day for two days after you’ve had sex. The World Health Organisation…
Hip: A Tight Ass – Not Hepatitis
Gay and bisexual men are at a higher risk of being infected with Viral Hepatitis. Here are some quick and dirty details to help you steer clear of this virus: Hepatitis means "inflammation of the liver" and Hepatitis A, B,…
When Ghosting Haunts You
It’s happened to most of us. Ghosting, it’s when someone seems interested in you and then suddenly goes as quiet as a corpse. Scenario 1. You meet a guy on an app or online, and he seems to be…
WHY GAY (GEIGH) TWITTER IS IMPORTANT FOR THE BLACK GAY CHILD?
It is not a secret that Black Twitter is basically South African Twitter and within Black Twitter you tend to find factions such as Gym Twitter, Promo Twitter and of course the influential gay twitter or as we call it…