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My thoughts on PrEP

It’s been over 19 months since I started taking PrEP called Tenemine that I got from Health4Men in Greenpoint, Cape Town.  I made the decision after I had an “accident” on a night out to one of the nightclubs in…

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THE STI HITLIST

Look, sexually transmitted infections (STIs) happen. But that doesn’t mean we need to allow them to make us feel ashamed, afraid or overwhelmed!  With a decent prevention strategy, MOST STIs can be avoided, and even if you do end up…

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NO SHAME IN THE GAYME

Hunnay, if you are single-handedly putting the ‘HOE’ back into ‘HOE-MO-SEXUAL’, you will not be getting a Judge Judy impersonation from me! Uh Uh!  Nuh Uh!  Nancy Drew the line! Thou shalt NOT! I am NOT a gayzebo, and therefore…

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SPRING FEVER SAFETY

It’s been a long cold Winter, fam. This Diva would be the last Diva to judge your for jumping on anything with a pulse as the Spring begins to thaw things out. The thirst is real, and I feel you.…

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Winter is coming and so could you.

It’s getting cold out so make sure you take care of yourself while you’re taking care of bizniss. Gurrrl!  It’s not just the bears that want to hibernate when it’s cold out. But for some of us singletons this is…

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A PrEP in your step

South Africa! What a journey it has been. Look, let’s put aside corruption, load shedding and the loss of Generations, South Africa is one hell of a place to be! And for members of the LGBTIQ+ community, life has never…

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The name of the Sh(G)ame

Let’s address the rather large red elephant in the room, shall we? Undetectable viral loads in a person on successful treatment of ARV’s and using PrEP in relation to shame, I feel is a conversation that needs to start happening…

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Big Dick Tips

“Nothing better than a big dick!” Okay, but really though? There are sub-groups on Reddit that would beg to differ. Hunties, it may be in vogue to wax lyrical about landing a guy with a big mass of man meat,…

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TAKE PRIDE

It’s Pride season guys, and if you’re anything like me, you’re ready to fluff out those tail feathers after a cold, dry winter.  It’s summer’s eve and whether or not you built a ‘bikini-ready bodaysha” during the three nippy months,…

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