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Get swept up in the PrEP wave

If you are an HIV-negative man who has sex with other men, I hope that you have already heard about pre-exposure prophylaxis! I know that’s more of a mouthful than a donkey dick but don’t worry, you can just call…

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Stop the Condom-shaming Babes

If there was a queue of queers waiting to sing the praises of pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP), girl, lemme tell you… I’d be first in line. But recently, I’ve noticed a rather unfortunate side effect since that chunky blue pill came…

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My thoughts on PrEP

It’s been over 19 months since I started taking PrEP called Tenemine that I got from Health4Men in Greenpoint, Cape Town.  I made the decision after I had an “accident” on a night out to one of the nightclubs in…

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THE STI HITLIST

Look, sexually transmitted infections (STIs) happen. But that doesn’t mean we need to allow them to make us feel ashamed, afraid or overwhelmed!  With a decent prevention strategy, MOST STIs can be avoided, and even if you do end up…

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NO SHAME IN THE GAYME

Hunnay, if you are single-handedly putting the ‘HOE’ back into ‘HOE-MO-SEXUAL’, you will not be getting a Judge Judy impersonation from me! Uh Uh!  Nuh Uh!  Nancy Drew the line! Thou shalt NOT! I am NOT a gayzebo, and therefore…

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SPRING FEVER SAFETY

It’s been a long cold Winter, fam. This Diva would be the last Diva to judge your for jumping on anything with a pulse as the Spring begins to thaw things out. The thirst is real, and I feel you.…

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Winter is coming and so could you.

It’s getting cold out so make sure you take care of yourself while you’re taking care of bizniss. Gurrrl!  It’s not just the bears that want to hibernate when it’s cold out. But for some of us singletons this is…

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