Ghosting: Why it hurts so much.
Ghosting, a term that has become popular in today’s lingo which describes disappearing on someone you were dating. (I would like to differentiate between dating and being in a relationship because a lot of people think when you are dating…
Make Love Not whore
I’ve always been a ropeless homantic. The chocolates, roses and long walks on the beach holding hands? Yes, Daddy! The problem is that these romantic tendencies have lived predominantly in my head and haven’t really manifested much further than that.…
Monogamy or Polyamory: Which one is for you?
Monogamy vs Polyamory has been a topic that has come up often on social media and in some of the spaces I have occupied. As we become aware and educate about sexuality, gender and sex, we are also investigating the…
13 Ways to prioritise your sexual health in 2020
It’s a new decade and most of us have resolved to refreshing our body counts and ‘starting afresh.’ With this new change, it obviously means that we also have to prioritise our sexual health. I have devised 13 ways in…
Januworry don’t jive with me, I’m PrEPped.
Guys, over the Festive I was lucky enough to be invited to one of “those” pool parties. I won’t lie, I did feel like a shady older queen with all the lovely fluffy young twinks that were flitting about, but…
Why sex shaming needs to stay in the past decade
Sex shaming isn’t something that has been foreign to me but since I started using PrEP, I have noticed how it has become common for people to make comments and assumptions about your sex life because you’re ‘on the pill.’…
Khanya Kemami’s transition journey
“I wish I had thought about it more all sooner and saved myself the pain of going through so much self-hate, dysphoria and fear in my teenage life.” Freelance Illustrator, DJ, Tattooist and Trans-Activist Khanya Kemami, 23, talks to us about…
The ugly truth behind body positivity
Though I grew up overweight, I chose to not be defined by it, and though I was coming to terms with my own body, stretch marks and all, I didn’t realise that I played a negative role in the way…
“I’m all about linking people to care.”
We The Brave chatted with Lesego Teddy Mohlala the Call4Care Client Communications Liaison Manager about his passion for connecting people with the healthcare and sexual health resources that they need. WTB: For those who have been sleeping under a rock,…