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TAKE PRIDE

It’s Pride season, and if you’re anything like me, you’re ready to fluff out those tail feathers after a cold, dry winter.  It’s Summer’s eve and whether or not you built a ‘bikini-ready bodaysha” during the nippy months, there is…

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Get swept up in the PrEP wave

If you are an HIV-negative man who has sex with other men, I hope that you have already heard about pre-exposure prophylaxis! I know that’s more of a mouthful than a donkey dick but don’t worry, you can just call…

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Stop the Condom-shaming Babes

If there was a queue of queers waiting to sing the praises of pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP), girl, lemme tell you… I’d be first in line. But recently, I’ve noticed a rather unfortunate side effect since that chunky blue pill came…

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Gay and single? You’re part of a trend

“But I don’t wanna die all aloooooone!”, said the devastated queen sitting beside me at a group therapy open circle. I could feel his pain. “I’ve been single for almost fifteen years now, WTF!” For me it’s only been about…

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A Mental Health Melt Down

I had an “Aha” moment. But when I say that, I don’t mean I spent thirty seconds listening to “Take on me” created by the gorgeous vintage Scandinavian band of the same name (Aha). No, I mean that I had…

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Sex, Intimacy and Coronavirus

How does COVID-19 (coronavirus) spread? COVID-19, a disease caused by coronavirus, spreads mostly from person-to-person contact through viral particles dispersed through the mouth by coughing, sneezing, laughing, singing or talking. People within about 1.5 metres can be infected if these…

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Ghosting: Why it hurts so much.

Ghosting, a term that has become popular in today’s lingo which describes disappearing on someone you were dating. (I would like to differentiate between dating and being in a relationship because a lot of people think when you are dating…

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Make Love Not whore

I’ve always been a ropeless homantic. The chocolates, roses and long walks on the beach holding hands?  Yes, Daddy! The problem is that these romantic tendencies have lived predominantly in my head and haven’t really manifested much further than that.…

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