I’m too much of an ‘Ola Pastry’ (old poof) these days, to really be able to comment on the mating habits of the Mavises (or perhaps the plural is Mavi?) still on the nightlife scene. But, be that as it…
It’s getting cold out so make sure you take care of yourself while you’re taking care of bizniss. Gurrrl! It’s not just the bears that want to hibernate when it’s cold out. But for some of us singletons this is…
South Africa! What a journey it has been. Look, let’s put aside corruption, load shedding and the loss of Generations, South Africa is one hell of a place to be! And for members of the LGBTIQ+ community, life has never…
Let’s address the rather large red elephant in the room, shall we? Undetectable viral loads in a person on successful treatment of ARV’s and using PrEP in relation to shame, I feel is a conversation that needs to start happening…
Navigating your way around life as a gay man presents a unique set of challenges. Family, friendships, love, health, sex. Especially sex! Not all of us are having sex in the safest of environments or circumstances, and it’s important to…
“Nothing better than a big dick!” Okay, but really though? There are sub-groups on Reddit that would beg to differ. Hunties, it may be in vogue to wax lyrical about landing a guy with a big mass of man meat,…
I have recently found myself with the unpleasant task of dealing with matters of Life and Death while filling in forms for life insurance and funeral policies, I kept running across a term that intrigued me - Risk Management. When…
My name is Cadenza Jones and four years ago I decided to pack up my life and relocate to the Gay Mecca of Southern Africa. Fresh off the N1 from Jozi, I earned my keep, putting tin foil in over…
What exactly is an HIV home-test? There are two types of HIV self-testing kits currently available. The one test requires a simple pinprick of blood and the other version is an oral swab test that doesn't need blood. Why self-test?…
Gay love stories highlighted by both straight and LGBTQ media people hardly ever show images of gay black couples. When one looks in the media, you never see any posts on Black Queer Love because the face of Queer we…