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Winter is coming and so could you.

It’s getting cold out so make sure you take care of yourself while you’re taking care of bizniss. Gurrrl!  It’s not just the bears that want to hibernate when it’s cold out. But for some of us singletons this is…

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A PrEP in your step

South Africa! What a journey it has been. Look, let’s put aside corruption, load shedding and the loss of Generations, South Africa is one hell of a place to be! And for members of the LGBTIQ+ community, life has never…

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The name of the Sh(G)ame

Let’s address the rather large red elephant in the room, shall we? Undetectable viral loads in a person on successful treatment of ARV’s and using PrEP in relation to shame, I feel is a conversation that needs to start happening…

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Your Right to Liberation

Navigating your way around life as a gay man presents a unique set of challenges. Family, friendships, love, health, sex. Especially sex! Not all of us are having sex in the safest of environments or circumstances, and it’s important to…

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Big Dick Tips

“Nothing better than a big dick!” Okay, but really though? There are sub-groups on Reddit that would beg to differ. Hunties, it may be in vogue to wax lyrical about landing a guy with a big mass of man meat,…

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Risk Management for the heart

I have recently found myself with the unpleasant task of dealing with matters of Life and Death while filling in forms for life insurance and funeral policies, I kept running across a term that intrigued me - Risk Management. When…

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PrEPped in the (Sh)City

My name is Cadenza Jones and four years ago I decided to pack up my life and relocate to the Gay Mecca of Southern Africa. Fresh off the N1 from Jozi, I earned my keep, putting tin foil in over…

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Celebrating Black Queer Love

Gay love stories highlighted by both straight and LGBTQ media people hardly ever show images of gay black couples. When one looks in the media, you never see any posts on Black Queer Love because the face of Queer we…

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