An Uber uncomfortable situation
By no standard or measurement would I ever fall into the category of small, petite or be anywhere close to portable, but even with my broad shoulders and chubby self, I found myself in the back of an Uber feeling…
Dis_Moffie_Ja?
I look in the mirror and there’s a knot in my stomach because of the bit of padding that I see on my stomach. I am nowhere near obese and actually weigh less than the average person my height, but…
TAKE PRIDE
It’s Pride season guys, and if you’re anything like me, you’re ready to fluff out those tail feathers after a cold, dry winter. It’s summer’s eve and whether or not you built a ‘bikini-ready bodaysha” during the three nippy months,…
Arion’s Brave Story
RAPED I know that it was Summer. The humidity in KZN can be debilitating. My golden skin glistened. Having a tan living in Durban is hard to avoid. Down the road, opposite the Drive-In, a path past the rubbish dump…
Popping your PrEP for One Night of Pleasure
It’s called Event-based PrEP or PrEP On-demand, and it’s when you take two PrEP pills on the day you plan to have sex and then one pill every day for two days after you’ve had sex. The World Health Organisation…
“How to overcome Homosexuality!” A book my father wrote in the early 80s.
Born in 1972 and started High school in 1985. In high school, I knew I was different from all my school friends. I just couldn't see myself holding hands with girls nor dating them. A very odd feeling for a…
Hip: A Tight Ass – Not Hepatitis
Gay and bisexual men are at a higher risk of being infected with Viral Hepatitis. Here are some quick and dirty details to help you steer clear of this virus: Hepatitis means "inflammation of the liver" and Hepatitis A, B,…
When Ghosting Haunts You
It’s happened to most of us. Ghosting, it’s when someone seems interested in you and then suddenly goes as quiet as a corpse. Scenario 1. You meet a guy on an app or online, and he seems to be…
WHY GAY (GEIGH) TWITTER IS IMPORTANT FOR THE BLACK GAY CHILD?
It is not a secret that Black Twitter is basically South African Twitter and within Black Twitter you tend to find factions such as Gym Twitter, Promo Twitter and of course the influential gay twitter or as we call it…