To spit or to swallow…that is the question.

Some do it, some don’t and some try to avoid the subject altogether. And I’m not talking about your tax returns. Chances are, if you are a gay man in…

So…What About Gay Divorce?

The birth of the Civil Union Act No. 17 of 2006 (“the Civil Union Act”) granted the long-awaited right of people in same sex relationships in South Africa to enter…

I don’t smile because I’m okay…

There has always been a lot of stigma around mental health, especially in the African context, but the biggest problem we have is not learning more about it and not…

My plus-size journey to Gay World SA and how I’m breaking the mould

We are raised in a society where the standard of perfection is set by the muscles, beautiful instagram pictures and fitness-oriented lifestyles of the few. We have forgotten to look…

Hiberdating: Finding someone to keep you warm for the winter

I’m too much of an ‘Ola Pastry’ (old poof) these days, to really be able to comment on the mating habits of the Mavises (or perhaps the plural is Mavi?)…

Winter is coming and so could you.

It’s getting cold out so make sure you take care of yourself while you’re taking care of bizniss. Gurrrl! It’s not just the bears that want to hibernate when it’s…

YOU’RE NOT ALONE

SEX IS MEANT TO BE FUN, NOT SCARY. WE’RE HERE TO IMPROVE YOUR SEXUAL LIFE, HEALTH AND ENSURE YOU ARE SAFE AND RESPONSIBLE ALONG THE WAY.

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The what's, how's and when's of getting tested

We recommend that all men who fuck men get tested for HIV and other STIs at least once every six months (and more frequently if you find yourself in a riskier position).

If there is even the slightest chance you may have been exposed to HIV (the condom broke or you didn’t manage to use one) we recommend you get your arse to a healthcare provider within 72 hours from exposure and ask for an emergency PEP kit.