Let me let (myself) go

A few years ago, I was engaged to a perfect man. At least that is what I believed he was. Everything I had ever wanted was wrapped up in one…

Humping When A Hug Would Do

Are you having sex when all you need is to be touched? We all need to be touched. It’s well-documented that babies that were not touched and held after birth…

The Name of the Game is Non-Monogamy

I am of the opinion that in all modern long-term gay relationships there comes a time when the question will be asked: Should we consider playing around with other people…

HOLY SH¡T! GUYS GET HPV TOO?

Human Papilloma Virus (HPV) has always been on the radar as a virus that affects girls and women, mainly because of its direct link to cervical cancer. But did you…

My Clinic Visit

Sitting in a clinic waiting room - waiting for test results - is definitely not my idea of a good time. It tends to put many things into perspective, once…

Gay Men and Substance Dependency

According to the National Centre on Addiction and Substance Abuse(CASA), more than half of individuals that have a substance problem also use or have problems with other substances. And more…

YOU’RE NOT ALONE

SEX IS MEANT TO BE FUN, NOT SCARY. WE’RE HERE TO IMPROVE YOUR SEXUAL LIFE, HEALTH AND ENSURE YOU ARE SAFE AND RESPONSIBLE ALONG THE WAY.

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The what's, how's and when's of getting tested

We recommend that all men who fuck men get tested for HIV and other STIs at least once every six months (and more frequently if you find yourself in a riskier position).

If there is even the slightest chance you may have been exposed to HIV (the condom broke or you didn’t manage to use one) we recommend you get your arse to a healthcare provider within 72 hours from exposure and ask for an emergency PEP kit.