When Love Bottoms Out – Can two bottoms make a top?

It’s the romance related question that is as old as time itself and many a love story has been made or destroyed by the answer. “Are you top or bottom?”…

SPRING FEVER SAFETY

It’s been a long cold Winter, fam. This Diva would be the last Diva to judge your for jumping on anything with a pulse as the Spring begins to thaw…

A Deadly Secret Affair

Obesity and HIV are a dangerous combination not many know about. Many people believe that HIV-positive people are very thin or underweight. But this is not the case and is…

To spit or to swallow…that is the question.

Some do it, some don’t and some try to avoid the subject altogether. And I’m not talking about your tax returns. Chances are, if you are a gay man in…

So…What About Gay Divorce?

The birth of the Civil Union Act No. 17 of 2006 (“the Civil Union Act”) granted the long-awaited right of people in same sex relationships in South Africa to enter…

I don’t smile because I’m okay…

There has always been a lot of stigma around mental health, especially in the African context, but the biggest problem we have is not learning more about it and not…

YOU’RE NOT ALONE

SEX IS MEANT TO BE FUN, NOT SCARY. WE’RE HERE TO IMPROVE YOUR SEXUAL LIFE, HEALTH AND ENSURE YOU ARE SAFE AND RESPONSIBLE ALONG THE WAY.

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The what's, how's and when's of getting tested

We recommend that all men who fuck men get tested for HIV and other STIs at least once every six months (and more frequently if you find yourself in a riskier position).

If there is even the slightest chance you may have been exposed to HIV (the condom broke or you didn’t manage to use one) we recommend you get your arse to a healthcare provider within 72 hours from exposure and ask for an emergency PEP kit.