Coming-Out Drag

Coming-Out Drag

When I was little I used to call high heels “cluck-cluck shoes” because of that sound – that authoritative smack – they make on the floor with every step. One of my earliest memories was cluck-clucking my way down the…

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To Have But Not To Hold

To have but not to hold

I’ve heard many people share the sentiment that gays are promiscuous and are only out for sex. I have often smiled to myself and thought that there is some truth to the saying, but it’s true for gay and straight…

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I’m The STIG

I’m the STIG

So, I just got back from the clinic, and it’s official… I’m the STIG: Sexually transmitted Infection guy. It was bound to happen, I guess - a few too many times tripping the light fantastic and living la Vida Loca…

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JD’s Coming In And Out Story

JD’s coming in and out story

My coming out story, if one can call it that, has always left me (and whoever cares to listen) chuckling. It is a perfect representation of how JD would handle a situation; in a sort of haphazard fashion, and then…

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LGBTQIA+ Blood Is Good To Go!

LGBTQIA+ blood is good to go!

It’s World Blood Donor Day today (14th June).  Did you know that the South African National Blood Services (SANBS) are no longer judgy to people because of their gender identity or sexual orientation?  Since 2014, LGBTQIA+ people are welcome to donate…

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TOILET DOT WHEN?

TOILET DOT WHEN?

Gay guys have been getting their groove on in toilets for ages. In fact, the unofficial homo history books will testify that our gay ancestors also found it convenient. Nowadays, guys are ‘outchea’ following this tradition, but now they’re using…

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Lube Tube

Lube Tube

Lube versus What is NOT Lube. Why use Lube? It makes things easier. Some parts of your body that are great for sex… Are not self-lubricating, unfortunately. Lube is excellent for anal sex. Silky smooth and a great sensation. If…

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A Fag, A Slut And A Continuum

A fag, a slut and a continuum

My ultimate bestie, Gawie, has a bitchy internet connection at home and very kindly drags himself to a coffee shop so he can Skype with me about sex. Hilarity ensues. Due to his public environment, he is often miming so…

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